Behavior charts are helpful tools for encouraging appropriate, responsible, and respectful behaviors in children. Perhaps the most challenging part of implementing a behavior chart is the actual set up. Below you will find a list of strategies to make this process go smoothly.
Behavior Chart Basics:
Work WITH your child to create realistic behavior expectations.
- Sit down with your child and discuss the desired expectation. Word expectations in a positive way.
- “Pick up toys” as opposed to “don’t make a mess”
- “Listen to directions after one or fewer warnings” instead of “Don’t argue”
- Allow the child to choose what types of rewards can be earned. Rewards do not have to include buying anything.
- Special time with a parent
- Extra bedtime stories
- Screen time
- Be consistent
- In the example above about listening to directions, if you give more than one warning, the opportunity to earn a point or sticker that time is over.
- Decide what is acceptable and use that same benchmark in all situations.
- Create a system that that gives the child opportunities to earn rewards incrementally
- 2 points for cleaning plate independently, 1 point for cleaning plate after a reminder
- A target number of points earned throughout the week can earn a larger, “weekend reward”.
- Give child many opportunities to be successful
- Encourage him/her to try something a second time if initially done incorrectly.
- If your chart has multiple behaviors, be sure to include a behavior that your child already demonstrates most of the time.
Sample Behavior Charts:
|Desired Behavior:Put toys away when finished playing||Reward|
|Extra bedtime story|
|Stay up 10 minutes later than regular bedtime|
|I choose dessert after dinner|
Example behavior chart for single behavior
Example Behavior Chart for Multiple Behaviors
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